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Setting Intentions

A Holistic Approach to Goal Setting


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Goal-setting has always been a cornerstone of personal growth, but intention-setting adds a unique layer, aligning purpose with action in a way that’s both empowering and grounded. Unlike rigid goals, intentions reflect your values, helping you create a roadmap that feels both achievable and meaningful. Here’s how setting intentions can change your approach to achieving your goals and some simple steps to get started.


Why Setting Intentions Matters

Setting intentions is about aligning your inner values with the life you want to create. Goals tend to focus on a specific outcome, while intentions focus on your desired feelings, experiences, and state of mind throughout the journey. In other words, intentions address the whole self, as opposed to just one part. This shift from “what do I want to achieve?” to “how do I want to feel?” brings a sense of balance and presence, reducing stress and nurturing your mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being along the way.


Creating a Roadmap and Reducing Overwhelm

One of the main benefits of intention-setting is that it provides a clear roadmap. Intentions act as guiding lights, helping you make choices that align with your vision rather than getting bogged down by day-to-day distractions. By focusing on incremental steps, intentions take the overwhelm out of change, making it easier to break down big-picture goals into manageable, meaningful actions.


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How Intentions Make Goals Actionable and Measurable

Unlike broad resolutions, intentions clarify exactly what you want to experience and why, which makes it easier to measure progress meaningfully. For instance, if your intention is to “nurture a healthy relationship with my body,” specific steps may include moving your body daily, focusing on nourishing foods, and practicing self-acceptance. These intentional steps create measurable change because they’re specific and tied to real actions.


In contrast, traditional goal-setting can sometimes become overly rigid, such as focusing on achieving a precise weight or body type. This can create negative associations if the outcome doesn't unfold exactly as envisioned. Intention-setting, however, builds a flexible foundation, allowing you to adapt and adjust as needed if something doesn't feel aligned along the way.


Steps to Setting Intentions Holistically

  1. Reflect on What You Truly Want

    Start by identifying what you want at a deeper level. Try to focus on how you want to feel rather than what, specifically, you want to accomplish. Ask yourself questions like, “What does happiness feel like for me?” or “What would success feel like if it were perfectly aligned with my values?”

  2. Identify Your Core Values

    Intentions should stem from what truly matters to you. Identify your core values—such as family, health, growth, or creativity—and consider how they align with your goals. This alignment creates a sense of fulfillment as you work toward what resonates with your authentic self. It also gives you a system of checks and balances as you move towards your intentions to ensure you stay true to yourself. To get started, check out this list of possible core values and see if anything stands out to you.

  3. Set Clear, Positive Intentions

    Frame your intentions in positive language, focusing on what you want rather than what you wish to avoid. For instance, instead of saying, “I want to stop being stressed,” try, “I want to invite peace and balance into my life.” This positive shift creates a more constructive and uplifting energy around your goals.

  4. Create Actionable Steps

    Break down your intentions into actionable, manageable steps. If your intention is to “foster creativity,” your steps might include dedicating an hour weekly to a creative hobby, taking a class, or making time to brainstorm new ideas without self-criticism. These steps make your intention tangible and practical. This worksheet may help you get started. (Note: Where the word "task" appears on the worksheet, replace it with "intention")

  5. Track Your Progress

    While intentions are rooted in feeling and experience, it’s important to measure progress. Keep a journal or reflection log to capture the steps you’ve taken, the emotions you’ve experienced, and the ways you’ve grown. This tracking process not only celebrates your journey but also reinforces your commitment.

  6. Adapt and Reflect Regularly

    Life changes, and so can your intentions. Reflect regularly on how your intentions feel, and adjust as needed. This flexibility ensures your intentions remain relevant, making it easier to keep moving forward without becoming too attached to a single outcome.


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The Power of Consistency and Patience

Setting intentions is a long-term practice that encourages consistency over intensity. Rather than expecting instant results, embrace a patient approach. By consistently aligning your actions with your intentions, small changes begin to build into lasting transformation. The journey becomes as fulfilling as the destination, making the process of growth more enriching and meaningful.


Embracing the Journey with Intention

Setting intentions offers a holistic approach to goal-setting that goes beyond mere accomplishment. By grounding yourself in values and aligning with what truly matters, intentions bring purpose to each step of the journey, reducing overwhelm, making goals actionable, and creating a sense of balance and joy. So as you set your intentions, know that you’re crafting a life that’s aligned not only with your goals but with your true self.


If you need any help crafting your intentions and the roadmap to get there, contact me today for a free consultation.

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